The Wife Test Framework

The most important thing for a wife in marriage is emotional safety and security. This is psychologically proven and tens of thousands of men through TBH VIP membership and our list of followers also reinforce this.If this is the most important thing for her, she must make sure that there...

The opposite of responsibility - are you this in your marriage?

The opposite of responsibility - are you this in your marriage? I am very excited about this week's topic because it is a foundation to EVERYTHING IN LIFE, including your marriage. It is the foundation for YOU as a MAN (not the other way around - this is not the...

It is normal to experience your wife "worse" when you start to work on yourself in hopes of saving your marriage

Plentiful Friday my Bowler! So this week I have been writing to you about how normal it is to experience your wife "worse" when you start to work on yourself in hopes of saving your marriage. Today, I want to look at that with you from the "how it makes you...

This is where you realize you can't save your marriage alone

Hey Fellow Men in my life, if I could pass along one word, TBH. This was an eye opener for me. I joined the group, The Tribe a few years ago, for a mere couple years. Before TBH I did try counselling, and a few other books. They did not...

Husbands Who Rebuilt their Marriage Did so Because They Moved onto Internal Transformation

I saw a video online the other day - genuinely forget who said it but it was along the lines of: Most people say money can't buy you happiness. And this guy said, yes it can… if you give it away. It resonated with me. Not from a money perspective...

Wife and Daughter Moved back After 5 Weeks in TBH

Huge win for one of our members! The wife ends the separation after a total of 9 weeks, and 5 weeks after starting the Bulletproof Husband™ program. My wife and daughter moved back home last night. 9 weeks post slap. 5 weeks since starting TBH. Once I completely let her...

Go from a Broken Relationship to Slow Dancing and Cuddling with the Wife

I cannot stop thinking about when the "coin drops" for a husband. Oh shit…I need help…my wife doesn't love me anymore…she wants to leave me…she wants nothing to do with me…AND I am making it worse by how I am reacting to it. EVERY SINGLE HUSBAND WE HAVE EVER WORKED...

Wife Went from Wanting to not Have Much to Do with Her Husband to Being Naked with Coffee Delivery

Rocking it as usual and staying in the realm of commitments and not feelings! Speaking of feelings…anger is one of them. It is an immediate shift and impact on your wife when you do emotional work and let go of anger. Check this out... This TBH member's wife went from...

When you use separation to focus on internal build-up of yourself and internal wins, magic happens

Today's goods come much later than usual as I had a hectic day getting family stuff sorted that was time sensitive for our trip to Europe in October. Literally everything went wrong that could go wrong lol Plus I dislike administration stuff and that was the tune of the day....

An example of an external win that happened purely because of internal wins from the weeks prior

I have been telling you the last couple days how challenging the past few weeks have been and how my wife and I came out successful on the other side. I also shared some things that I used from TBH to get there. My wife sent me this the other...