This is where you realize you can’t save your marriage alone

This is where you realize you can’t save your marriage alone

Hey Fellow Men in my life, if I could pass along one word, TBH. This was an eye opener for me. I joined the group, The Tribe a few years ago, for a mere couple years.

Before TBH I did try counselling, and a few other books. They did not click with me.

If you are in a troublesome time in your relationship with your spouse, or for any reason, it could be for you.

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The next phase is about getting real help.

This is where you realize you can’t save your marriage alone.

You finally see that you need guidance – real guidance-from someone with a proven track record.

You need someone who knows how to navigate the mess happening at home.

This is where most men decide to get help.

Maybe this is the point where you find TBH or another program.

You say, “Okay, I’m ready.”

You finally get it.

You start to see areas where you’re responsible.

But sometimes, even men who come to TBH don’t fully see their responsibility yet.

They’re just aware that they’re missing something.

They know something needs to shift.

And because they’ve tried to fix it on their own, only to make things worse, they’re now ready to surrender.

It’s like they’re saying, “I’m ready to let someone help me because it’s clear I can’t do this by myself.”

So, ask yourself right now: Where are you on this journey?

This is a crucial question.

Wherever you are, the next phase is coming unless you make a shift.

Maybe you’re about to get married and you’re watching this proactively (though that’s rare).

Most men watch after the slap.

If you’re lucky, maybe you’re still in the suffocation or identity phase, and you want to act now.

But most men come after the slap, and that’s okay.

What’s important is understanding how you got here and where you are now.

The sooner you shift, the less damage you’ll have to repair.

This isn’t just about your marriage.

It’s about your relationship with your kids, your wife, and yourself.

And let’s address something important – this idea that getting help equals weakness.

That’s nonsense.

Getting help isn’t weakness. It’s strength.

To say, “I know my strengths, I know my weaknesses, and what I’m doing isn’t working,” takes real power.

It’s recognizing that you’re lost, confused, desperate, and that your actions are making things worse.

To admit that and then reach out for help is a sign of courage.

It’s anything but weakness.

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Along with the book, you’ll get three training bonuses-Stages Framework, Domains Framework, and the Marriage Stabilizer Blueprint.

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This book has saved countless marriages.

It’s not just theory – it’s an implementation guide.

No matter where you are in your relationship, there’s always an opportunity to grow and get better.