{"id":365,"date":"2022-10-05T05:56:03","date_gmt":"2022-10-05T05:56:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bulletproofhusbands.com\/?p=365"},"modified":"2023-04-06T05:14:50","modified_gmt":"2023-04-06T05:14:50","slug":"husbands-who-rebuilt-their-marriage-did-so-because-they-moved-onto-internal-transformation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bulletproofhusbands.com\/husbands-who-rebuilt-their-marriage-did-so-because-they-moved-onto-internal-transformation\/","title":{"rendered":"Husbands Who Rebuilt their Marriage Did so Because They Moved onto Internal Transformation"},"content":{"rendered":"

I saw a video online the other day – genuinely forget who said it but it was along the lines of:<\/p>\n

Most people say money can’t buy you happiness. And this guy said, yes it can\u2026 if you give it away.<\/p>\n

It resonated with me.<\/p>\n

Not from a money perspective but the giving away part.<\/p>\n

I think it applies to life in general AND marriage. <\/p>\n

When you can be of service to your wife instead of trying to be helpful it truly shifts the dynamics. <\/p>\n

Because to be of service you have to:<\/p>\n

Be present to see what service is required
\n Give away your time without any direction from her
\n Have 0 expectations in return
\n Have the courage to initiate the service<\/p>\n

Just realized as I am wiring this that so many husbands who have successfully rebuilt their marriage regardless of separation <\/a>or cheating or if they were already divorced\u2026<\/p>\n

They did so because they moved onto internal transformation which led to being of service to their wife.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Listening. Hearing. Understanding. Giving freedom. <\/p>\n

The latest example is a husband who used TBH tools he learned at their couples therapy session:<\/p>\n

\n

Another victory today fellas. <\/p>\n

Had therapy together and with the little work I’ve done thru here already, we’re staring to make some strides. I’ve learned what she needs from me and that I need to continue to do better on so I can be tbh!!!<\/p>\n

Thanks everyone for your support and appreciate this group so much!!<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

P.S. It sounds so weird when we say to focus on your internal compass. Move away from focusing on her.<\/p>\n

But boy\u2026does it work so well. Creates shifts never thought possible.<\/p>\n

And you can too.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I saw a video online the other day – genuinely forget who said it but it was along the lines of: Most people say money can’t buy you happiness. And this guy said, yes it can\u2026 if you give it away. It resonated with me. Not from a money perspective but the giving away part. 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