{"id":365,"date":"2022-10-05T05:56:03","date_gmt":"2022-10-05T05:56:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bulletproofhusbands.com\/?p=365"},"modified":"2023-04-06T05:14:50","modified_gmt":"2023-04-06T05:14:50","slug":"husbands-who-rebuilt-their-marriage-did-so-because-they-moved-onto-internal-transformation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bulletproofhusbands.com\/husbands-who-rebuilt-their-marriage-did-so-because-they-moved-onto-internal-transformation\/","title":{"rendered":"Husbands Who Rebuilt their Marriage Did so Because They Moved onto Internal Transformation"},"content":{"rendered":"
I saw a video online the other day – genuinely forget who said it but it was along the lines of:<\/p>\n
Most people say money can’t buy you happiness. And this guy said, yes it can\u2026 if you give it away.<\/p>\n
It resonated with me.<\/p>\n
Not from a money perspective but the giving away part.<\/p>\n
I think it applies to life in general AND marriage. <\/p>\n
When you can be of service to your wife instead of trying to be helpful it truly shifts the dynamics. <\/p>\n
Because to be of service you have to:<\/p>\n
Be present to see what service is required
\n Give away your time without any direction from her
\n Have 0 expectations in return
\n Have the courage to initiate the service<\/p>\n