{"id":358,"date":"2022-09-19T05:32:34","date_gmt":"2022-09-19T05:32:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bulletproofhusbands.com\/?p=358"},"modified":"2023-04-05T05:38:36","modified_gmt":"2023-04-05T05:38:36","slug":"go-from-a-broken-relationship-to-slow-dancing-and-cuddling-with-the-wife","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bulletproofhusbands.com\/go-from-a-broken-relationship-to-slow-dancing-and-cuddling-with-the-wife\/","title":{"rendered":"Go from a Broken Relationship to Slow Dancing and Cuddling with the Wife"},"content":{"rendered":"
I cannot stop thinking about when the “coin drops” for a husband. <\/p>\n
Oh shit\u2026I need help\u2026my wife doesn’t love me anymore\u2026she wants to leave me\u2026she wants nothing to do with me\u2026AND I am making it worse by how I am reacting to it.<\/p>\n
EVERY SINGLE HUSBAND WE HAVE EVER WORKED WITH had some form of this aha moment.<\/p>\n
Some more harsh than others.<\/p>\n
It’s a world shattering event for you probably as well.<\/p>\n
And also a weight off your shoulders because now you realize you need help. <\/p>\n
Truth is that if your marriage is not working, this “world shattering coin drop” event is not optional.<\/p>\n
It’s not an IF it will happen. It’s a WHEN it will happen (I get it, it might already happened for you)<\/p>\n
The first one is a weak emotional decision.<\/p>\n
The second one requires strength and a sense of humbleness.<\/p>\n
And the 2nd one is much harder because you have to put your ego aside (ego is one of the reasons you are in the situation in the first place).<\/p>\n