{"id":347,"date":"2022-09-16T11:51:33","date_gmt":"2022-09-16T11:51:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bulletproofhusbands.com\/?p=347"},"modified":"2023-04-04T11:58:18","modified_gmt":"2023-04-04T11:58:18","slug":"when-you-use-separation-to-focus-on-internal-build-up-of-yourself-and-internal-wins-magic-happens","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bulletproofhusbands.com\/when-you-use-separation-to-focus-on-internal-build-up-of-yourself-and-internal-wins-magic-happens\/","title":{"rendered":"When you use separation to focus on internal build-up of yourself and internal wins, magic happens"},"content":{"rendered":"
Today’s goods come much later than usual as I had a hectic day getting family stuff sorted that was time sensitive for our trip to Europe in October.<\/p>\n
Literally everything went wrong that could go wrong lol<\/p>\n
Plus I dislike administration stuff and that was the tune of the day.<\/p>\n
BUT, I conquered! Lots more to do before the trip, but conquered today.<\/p>\n
Plus my good friend Mr. Scannell (TBH co-founder) also gently called me on some of my shit\u2026some distractions he sees\u2026so will have to dive into those\u2026 he doesn’t speak often but when he does it’s usually right.<\/p>\n
What a blessing!<\/p>\n
Speaking of blessings\u2026<\/p>\n
Blessings come in many forms. Sometimes they don’t look like blessings initially.<\/p>\n
In fact, sometimes it doesn’t look like a blessing at all.<\/p>\n
For example, separation from your wife. You probably freak out just from the thought of it.<\/p>\n
However, when you use separation to focus on internal build-up of yourself and internal wins, magic happens.<\/p>\n
Don’t take my word for it. See it for yourself:<\/p>\n
\nToday I say goodbye to this place I called home for 7 months. This is a pool house that was on Airbnb 15 minutes from home. We tried to wok it out living under the same roof. But ultimately she needed space and looking back, although I hated the idea of moving out, I needed space as well.<\/p>\n
This place was great, had a kitchen, washer and dryer and 1 bedroom already furnished. So I just moved my clothes and live alone for the first time in 18 years. I was able to do as I pleased and she was able to get the space she wanted.<\/p>\n
Here, I found myself. I was able to emotionally break down anytime I wanted. I could scream as loud as I wanted without worry. I spent hours upon hours working on myself, studying the modules, I completely buried myself in the work. Here is where I found myself and my soul.<\/p>\n
Looking back, I can say without a doubt this place was instrumental in getting my life back. And how that has managed me back home, I say goodbye to this place. I don’t know know if God sent me there, but the landlord also became an emotional support. She too almost had a divorce with her husband and I cried on her shoulder a couple of times.<\/p>\n
If your wife manages you to leave the house, know that she knows what’s best for the relationship. Do not worry and trust her. i did and it turned out to be the best thing to happen to me.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n
P.S. If separation talks are on the horizon or you are already separated, don’t freak out! It’s all good in the hood. Seriously.<\/p>\n
Half of TBH men who rebuilt their marriage were separated. They used specific tools (like HUAV and OEQs) to capitalize on the separation and actually turn it into a blessing. <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Today’s goods come much later than usual as I had a hectic day getting family stuff sorted that was time sensitive for our trip to Europe in October. Literally everything went wrong that could go wrong lol Plus I dislike administration stuff and that was the tune of the day. BUT, I conquered! Lots more […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":348,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[24],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n
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