{"id":338,"date":"2022-09-13T10:52:36","date_gmt":"2022-09-13T10:52:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bulletproofhusbands.com\/?p=338"},"modified":"2023-04-04T10:57:25","modified_gmt":"2023-04-04T10:57:25","slug":"thoughts-on-getting-your-wife-to-love-you-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bulletproofhusbands.com\/thoughts-on-getting-your-wife-to-love-you-again\/","title":{"rendered":"Thoughts on Getting Your Wife to Love You Again"},"content":{"rendered":"
I am 35 years old and not really a “doctor” going person.<\/p>\n
Might be old school thinking but if you want to find a problem and you really look for it\u2026you will.<\/p>\n
However, my wife (who is 4 years older and wiser than me) really wanted me to do a general check up in my mid-30s.<\/p>\n
So here I am waiting for some blood work at the doctor’s recommendation. <\/p>\n
Anyhow, as I am sitting here waiting and writing to you, I thought about “general check up for your marriage” and the question came to me\u2026<\/p>\n
Do you have the confidence and the courage to look at your marriage?<\/p>\n
See, I may not be proactive to visit the doctor, but it’s not because of fear or anxiety. <\/p>\n
It is simply because I listen to my body and believe that if something is up my body will let me know. <\/p>\n
And if my wife says you should do a check up, I will because I appreciate her commitment to my health. I don’t let ego get in the way. And in a way, she is part of my “intangible” body. <\/p>\n
No different in marriage.<\/strong><\/p>\n Is your wife giving you signals but you are avoiding them? <\/p>\n Perhaps turning a blind eye because you don’t attribute importance to it?<\/p>\n Or maybe you are afraid of what you might discover and rather stay in your comfort zone?<\/p>\n These are important questions to do introspection on my brother.<\/p>\n There is a TBH member whose bday is coming up. <\/p>\n 2 years ago when he joined TBH his wife didn’t even acknowledge his bday.<\/p>\n This year\u2026in 2022\u2026she planned a whole trip with different events and a date. <\/p>\n What’s the difference other than the 2 years of time?<\/p>\n The work he has done for himself and the leadership he consistently demonstrates to his wife and children. <\/a><\/p>\n Bringing this today for anyone that needs to hear it. You are exactly where you need to be. Today, 9\/13\/22 is the 2-year anniversary of my wife managing me to move out of the house after 20 years of marriage.<\/p>\n I celebrate today, as the first day that she started to miss the man, husband and father that I had become.<\/p>\n We started dating again a few months later…<\/p>\n What is missing is the missing.<\/p>\n …and we have a dinner date tonight!<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n P.S. Are you ready for your “marriage check up”? Let us be your “marriage doctor” for this so that you can be in the game you are meant to be in! <\/p>\n Book a call with one of our “marriage specialists”.<\/p>\n In take form here. <\/a><\/p>\n Or let’s get right to the hospital if you already have pain! <\/p>\nThe average wife gives signals for 2+ years to a husband. You need to understand this and consider it a fact.<\/h3>\n
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